Life is a mirage, an illusional presentation of reality; not all that glitters is gold, and expectations are not a reality. If wishes were always fulfilled, life would be a bed of roses, but life is neither so nor will it ever be so. Hence, there is a need to live in a world of reality to avoid unexpected hiccups and tsunami waves of life.

We often perceive life as a sequence of desires fulfilled, dreams realized, and success effortlessly attained. However, the truth is far from such an idealized vision. Just as a mirage deceives a weary traveller in the desert, life presents illusions that mask the struggles and uncertainties hidden beneath its surface. One may aspire for wealth, believing it guarantees happiness, only to realize that it comes with responsibilities, anxieties, and unrelenting expectations.

Hence, life is like a beautiful woman; it is often perceived as perfect and untroubled but carries unseen burdens and silent struggles. These 'beautiful problems' could be the challenges we face in our relationships, the hurdles we overcome in our careers, or the personal growth we achieve through our struggles. Society often places life on a pedestal, adorning it with admiration and privilege, yet beneath the surface lies a battle unknown to many. Though celebrated, life comes with challenges — misconceptions, envy, and unrelenting scrutiny. The world often assumes that life has an easier path and that doors open effortlessly before it. But the truth is far from that — another illusion of life.

The same applies to relationships —what appears to be perfect love from a distance may be conflicts with misunderstandings, compromises, and emotional turmoil. Nor does friendship come with perfection; it, too, can be deceptive. Some may seem genuine, but when tested by hardship or challenges, they vanish like an illusion fading under scrutiny. The mirage of external perfection often conceals an underlying complexity that can only be understood when one steps closer to reality.

Success, often glorified as the ultimate destination, is another illusion society chases. We are led to believe that achievement brings unending joy. Yet, those who reach great heights often discover new burdens, loneliness, and an insatiable hunger for more — yes, the inextinguishable urge for beautiful life problems. The pursuit of perfection, whether in career, relationships, or personal growth, is an unending race — each milestone revealing another mirage on the horizon.

Despite these illusions, life remains a beautiful paradox. The key to navigating its mirages lies in embracing its imperfections. We must learn to navigate the tides, to separate the genuine from the superficial. We must build a strength that is more than skin deep, an inner resilience forged through the trials of perception. Beauty may be our gift, but our essence, mind, and spirit define us far more. True happiness is not found in an idealized vision but in the ability to find contentment amidst uncertainty. Recognizing that challenges and disappointments are inherent parts of life allows us to appreciate the beauty in the struggle and the joy in the journey.

In the end, life is neither as easy nor as perfect as it appears from afar. It is a series of ever-shifting illusions that test our strength, resilience, and adaptability. The wise learn to distinguish between reality and illusion, embracing life with a grounded perspective. A beautiful life may come with beautiful problems, but it is in overcoming them that we find true fulfilment. Beautiful life, beautiful problems, indeed.

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